Being 34 myself, and I must confess: having a thing for younger guys, I found this article / answer on a question over at "About.com: Gay Life" very informative and interesting.
Full article here:
http://gaylife.about.com/od/gaysexadvice/qt/dateyoungerman.htm
"Dear Mona Lisa,
I'm 38 years old, and I always have been attracted to or dated people about my age. Now I'm single and I haven't dated for a while (I mean seriously dated). A boy about 20 years old seems very interested in me and I like him. But, I don't know how flirt or approach him. I don't have experience dating younger guys. I hope you understand what I mean. I'll appreciate your advice.
Sincerely,
Arc
Arc my love,
I wouldn't worry too much about this younger dude. The 20-something gays are bolder, more aggressive and much more self-aware than previous generations. If he's shown interest, then he's definitely digging your vibe.
You've been out of the game for a while, so it may seem like you've forgotten how to flirt, but a man's mojo never really fades away. A guy's ability to flirt is somehow embedded in his DNA. We don't lose it, it can just lie dormant sometimes.
But, is flirting with a younger guy the same as flirting with someone your own age? In many ways it is. You don't have to pull out a new bag of tricks to snag a newbie. Keep in mind: ..."
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